Overgivers and people pleasers have such a difficult time realizing that if you walk your own authentic path, certain people are naturally going to dislike you and be triggered by you. And that’s there isn’t anything you need to fix about that. Only to recognize and accept it.
Don’t expect people to understand you. They love to judge & speak like they know what you’re going through. The truth is they don’t. No one does because they’ve not walked in your shoes. So don’t feel frustrated when you hear their comments. The Almighty knows. Smile & move on.
I love how repetitively it's proven that people will experience you differently, mostly it has nothing to do with you but how people feel about themselves.
Not everyone can be in your life and master the art of managing self without making it about the next person.