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[SADÉ @mssintellectual]

lmaaaaaaaooooojhcsdhdcchs

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

My uncle who's 50+ would always say women over 25 are old but men at 50 are still in their prime. Today in the group chat, he said he needed help from me and my sisters with housework because he's struggling with lifting and bending so I had to remind him that he's still in his prime and he shouldn't be struggling with simple tasks. if it's already difficult for him, it'll be impossible for us 25+ old hags unless he's expecting my dad to come and do it. Now my family is blowing up my phone.

[SADÉ @mssintellectual]

gatekeeping is self-preservation.

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Misogyny also shows up when women treat their female friends like commodities instead of valuing them as real people.

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The pipeline from admiration to resentment is so crazy lmao. Familiarly really breeds contempt.

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Everyone looks and thinks alike because no one respected gatekeeping when it mattered.

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It truly is. Something I’ve been thinking about lately is how people pray prayers like, “Any tongue that rises against me shall be condemned in judgment.” Many ppl don’t realize that gossip places them in the very position those prayers are meant to address. Then when things begin to go wrong in their lives, they wonder why. Lol. They are the weapons forms against themselves.

[Kheperá @DeLadyKhepera]

Gossiping is one of the most overlooked forms of witchcraft. Before you go gossiping about somebody, try minding your business instead.

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No one can truly “condition” someone to believe anything without their participation. The absence of questioning is the issue.

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Men have often gotten away with a lot because many women lack critical thinking when it comes to relationships and power. A woman can be highly educated and still lack the discernment that comes from real-world awareness. Book intelligence and street intelligence are not the same.

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Writing is a craft many people will never fully understand. The mental effort it takes to research, organize your thoughts, and translate them onto paper is mentally taxing.

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The most male-centered women you’ll meet are deeply religious. Much of what they frame as devotion to God is often shaped by the male gaze.

Their standards, how they dress, the way they speak and handle conflict, the colours they wear, the choices they make, the way they believe a woman should live … much of it becomes a performance centered on & for men.

Many of these women genuinely believe they’re preserving morality, but in practice they end up protecting men more than holding them accountable.

It’s no surprise that some men struggle with accountability today. They were raised in environments where women consistently shielded them from it. Overly religious women help sustain this dynamic by excusing and preserving men’s lack of self-control.

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Misalignment has consequences.

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A teachable spirit leaves little room for envy. ❤️

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Sometimes when women tell me about all the stress and turmoil happening around them, I have to remind myself not to say the first thing that comes to mind. Because very often the pattern points back to the relationship they’re in. Not every partnership is nourishing, and when two people are misaligned, the imbalance tends to ripple into many areas of life.

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Thin crust >>>> hand tossed

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[Not a phrase; just an observation.]

They talk too much! Always dominating conversations so there’s little room for anyone else’s perspective.

[Sophia ❣️ @KeruboSk]

What’s a phrase a narcissist says that instantly gives them away?

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This is your daily reminder that “tooken” is not a word 🫩

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Many people say they support strong women until they encounter a woman who truly refuses to compromise her boundaries. Make it make sense lol

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Weak environments punish strong women.

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A lot of people want transformation, but they don’t want to face the version of themselves that must be released for it to happen. Growth ALWAYS requires letting go.

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A lot of personal growth is simply learning how to trust your own perception.