my toxic trait is detachment. i grew up emotionally distant, so it’s easy for me to lose interest and cut ties. i can miss someone deeply and still never reach out again.
the hardest part about making friends is everyone already has their people. they have their own friend group with years of memories and inside jokes. when ur new it’s like ur intruding. they’ll talk to u, maybe they’ll hang out with u but u can feel that u don’t belong.
I really think I need a mod that completely changes Hayden’s heart events so that they are not about his stupid chicken. I don’t have any problem with Henrietta, but if I’m romancing him, it’s because I want to know more about him, not about a chicken. ugh.