Fuel went from ₦185 to over ₦1,350 under one administration, and the average Nigerian is expected to smile through it. This is madness. People are exhausted.
crazy this is a hot take now but i think people deserve the to go outside and mind their business without worrying about being photographed and posted online without their knowledge or consent
Fun fact:
If you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated, or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes for friendships too
I find that many women have internalised the idea that it’s a man’s job to ‘lead’ or steer a relationship, so they just wait and wait for him to define it because whenever he chooses to is the right time. They want more but are afraid to ask a simple question or start an honest conversation because they’re hoping he’ll eventually do it.
But you’re an equal participant. Clarity is something you should actively seek, not something you sit and wait on. You have every right to state what you want, ask where things are headed, and leave if the answer isn’t what you’re looking for.
Why even hand someone else that much power over your life? Stop treating yourself like a passenger in your own story. You have agency. Use it.
absolutely hate the new twitter update. my retweets are complimentary to my tweets! obviously whoever made this update doesn’t respect women or aesthetics #notinthemood