It’s incredibly ironic how non-Japanese BL fans try to bring the term “yaoi” back nowadays when I think about the state of modern BL manga & how not focused on sex it’s become.
Even in stories where they have sex regularly, the emphasis is still on the emotional connection.
90% of the time I see someone here promote a BL as one with a 'power bottom', it turns out the uke has a rough personality but is very submissive in bed bye 😭😭😭 that's not what power bottom means 😭😭😭