Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
once i’ve addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, i stop caring. It's above me now. people treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. at some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.
Turning avoidant is the final boss of getting fvcked up in relationships. Anxious clings until the pain teaches them: caring too much will destroy you. So they flip to ‘I’m good alone’ mode. That’s not them being mean, that’s deep scar disguised as isolation.
I'm at a point in life where | leave everything to Allah.
No forcing, no chasing, no unnecessary words.
I stopped expecting from people and started relying only on Allah.
Just patience, tawakkul and peace in my heart.