@AsakyGRN truth is, so many female friendships center around trauma dumping on each other, or otherwise complaining, gossiping, or talking about their newest fling.
The more you rise into yourself as a woman, the smaller your circle will get for this very reason 👍🏼
@IamDennisOtieno I can’t help but hear the glee in the tone. It’s funny how those outside the US are more aware and concerned than those of us inside. Ni sisi tuko and noone checks on us unless they want only one thing - USD. As for coming back home, we’ll be back on our own terms😀
CHECK ON YOUR RELATIVES IN THE US ASAP!
As I said before, never be too comfortable in a foreign country. The moment you enter is the very same moment you should start planning your exit and putting your affairs in order back home.
President Trump has essentially dismantled the H1B visa route to the US. Employers will now have to pay $100,000 per year to retain a foreign employee, and that employee will only be granted single-entry access to the US—meaning you cannot travel home for any reason without losing your status.
This means that very many people are coming back home!
This should sink into every diasporan’s mind: it can happen to you anywhere in the world. The UK may implement similar measures in the near future.
dating is so hard now. everyone’s on guard, a whole competition, who calls first, who is less affectionate. act like you don’t really need them so they don’t get too comfortable with you. you can’t just be yourself? it’s very stressful.
When discussing something & someone starts saying how I'm using emotions instead of logic , I just know you want to gaslight me & insult my intelligence. Most of the time the logic you people expect people to apply is always very stupid. Mistaking logic for intellectualism<<<