mūtbl.

On a mission to help make the unconscious conscious. Change starts with ū.

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@decadentquill Keep going! This is just the beginning

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You hoped that if you gave enough, loved enough, sacrificed enough — they’d eventually show up consistently.

They didn’t.

And this is the trap.

The arrival fallacy.

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Do you have difficulty maintaining boundaries?

Do you tend to please others and avoid confrontation?

Keep reading👇

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Chances are you’re anxiously attached.

This isn’t a deficiency. It’s a coping mechanism. An intelligent one, actually.

The little kid inside you learned to survive around parents who were inconsistent.

They show up one day. They don’t the next.

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“Let your courage be kinder than your fear.”

— Brené Brown

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https://t.co/pRq4W4dW5D

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New week, new piece.

Drops tomorrow at 9:36am EST.

You've been running two versions of yourself your entire life.

One you show. One you manage.

Jung had a name for the second one.

Subscribe so it lands in your inbox first.

Link in comments 👇

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You don't need a system.
You need one habit.

The system comes. Built with every habit.
Brick by brick.

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Unknown allies will come.

But first, you have to be stable enough to recognize them.

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One week in. Still talking about the 4Ms.

Because getting unstuck is a process, not a moment.

Read it if you haven't: https://t.co/GavWNGDgBf

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Every time you abandon your boundaries, you teach yourself that you're not worth protecting.

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The 4Ms didn't start as a recovery framework.

I borrowed the structure. Applied it differently.
Not to fix my metabolism — to climb out of survival mode.

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Don't try to harvest in spring.
Plant first.
Trust the season.

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We meet people for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

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Getting unstuck isn't a mindset shift.

It's a sequence.

The 4Ms — live now: https://t.co/GavWNGDgBf

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The old tribe doesn't understand the new version of you.
The new tribe hasn't arrived yet.

That's not abandonment.
That's the in-between.

[mūtbl. @mu_tbl]

With all the hustle surrounding @openclaw and @steipete lately, this is the most vulnerable and secure post I’ve seen in a while.

Great example, Peter! 👏
We cannot always do it alone and it’s okay to ask for help when we need it.

[Peter Steinberger 🦞 @steipete]

Anyone here who wants to help with WhatsApp CLI? It needs love, and I can't focus on it right now. https://t.co/J28AfwqmeZ

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Your boundaries don't ask for much — just your trust and your follow-through.

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The nervous system is already overloaded.

Adding four new habits at once isn't ambitious.
It's a guaranteed path back to bed.