Ordered take out at 1a.m again because I decided to have dinner at 7pm.
Rider : Nimefika kwa gate yako.
Me: Umejuaje ni hapo ( our court has several gates)
Him: Hakuna mtu mwingine hii court huwa naletea food hii masaa…
It’s always fun to throw people off with your duality. You can be mysterious but also honest about your lived experiences. Funny but strict. You can be multiple things at once. Life is more fun that way when you have a multidimensional and layered personality.
My son is deaf. We were at a McDonald’s. He was signing his order to me so I could tell the cashier. Normal routine. We do it everywhere. The teenager at the register watched for a second. Then she signed back. Directly to him. “What do you want?” In ASL.
One of the realest conversations I have encountered online: on how economic standing influences men's perception of romantic relationships, and their (un)willingness to participate in the institution of marriage.
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."