Mama bilang:
"jangan pernah datang ke keluarga laki-laki kecuali kamu dijemput dan diantar. Jangan pernah memperkenalkan diri ke keluarga laki-laki kecuali keluarganya yang mau kenalan sama kamu"
Okey mama sayangโค๏ธ
Stay away from people who call it arguing every time you try to explain how you feel. If your voice always sounds like a threat to them, that's not a safe place.
Cutting people off with no explanation just feels more refreshing now it gets draining having to overly explain yourself to mfs who constantly do weird shit.
We need to normalize moving on silently when someone doesn't want you. You don't need to send them long paragraphs or beg them to see your worth. Let them lose you and find out once you're gone what they actually gave up.