@insomniasstits@Klaww21@QuirkyPwrLftr if you arent making an attempt to see your partner(s) then yes that its objectively unfair and a clear lack of effort
@insomniasstits@Klaww21@QuirkyPwrLftr when youre the sole driver in a relationship youll understand how insane it is to demand multiple ppl put time, effort, money, and mileage to see you and you put no effort into doing the same.