diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️

kita semua gila, cuma mager jalan aja🧏‍♀️

[Sahza @sahza____]

@sibiwl padahal ada aksi ada reaksi, kenapa cuma fokus ke reaksinya aja. 😔

[sarah ayu @sibiwl]

The bitter truth is, ternyata perempuan cuma dilihat dari kemarahannya, tapi saat menerima segalanya, toleransinya, maafnya, maklumnya, dan mengertinya enggak terlihat sama sekali.

Dan kebanyakan cuma fokus pada reaksinya, karena di mata sebagian laki-laki, perempuan hanya manusia egois, berisik, dan suka membesar-besarkan masalah. 🥹

[aya🌝🌻 @wijayasasnaaa]

always, weaponized incompetence lanang direspon lucu-lucuan.

men said ga pernah nuntut apa-apa ketika perempuan kritik something, yes bcs most of the time udah dilayani duluan.

[muklas @mukaikhlas]

ANJINGGG😭😭😭😭😭

[txt keresahan WNI @KapudS640]

Aku pernah nanya suamiku, kayak gini
👧 : “yang, menurut kamu. Aku bisa ga ya jadi ani-ani?” (Iseng, pertanyaan memancing wkwk)
👨 : “Gak bisa yang”
👧 : “Kenapa? Aku kurang cantik?”
👨 : “bukan, ayang cantik kok. Makanya aku ajak nikah”
👧 : “Terus?”
👨 : “Jadi ani-ani itu harus penurut, tidak melawan. Sedangkan kamu tukang melawan, kritis dan punya opini sendiri.

Nah ani-ani tuh ga bisa gitu,
karena tugasnya muasin ego l
aki-laki ga percaya diri”
Lah iya juga 👀

cc:threadrddenisa

[txtsadfoodlitik @txtsadfoodlitik]

Semakin tinggi kecerdasan seseorang, semakin menusuk kata2 nya. Psikologi menyebut ini sbgai low tolerance for cognitive distortion.

Artinya org dgn kecerdasan tinggi sulit mentoleransi kebohongan, alasan palsu, dan logika yg lemah.

Otak merek terbiasa berpikir efisien dan langsung, mereka memotong drama dan langsung ke inti masalah, Itulah knp kata2nya terasa pedas.

Jadi apakah kamu termasuk orang cerdas itu? biasanya yaelah ini gue banget.

[diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️ @mulicantikk]

my dad is such a jerk, i feel like im getting all his karma

[diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️ @mulicantikk]

*pleased

[diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️ @mulicantikk]

it doesn't please me at all

[gara @anggarasamvdr]

iya juga ya..

[🌸💫 @gueiava]

Taugasi menurut pakar klimatologi BRIN, diperkirakan sampai September nanti khususnya bagian selatan Indonesia bakal ngalamin yang namanya El Nino Godzilla. Kenapa dinamain “Godzilla?” Karna pada level ini tingkat kekuatannya “super” alias lebih panas dari El Nino yang terakhir terjadi di 2023.

Suhu mungkin ga mencapai 40°C tapi bakal FEELS LIKE 40°C. Jam2 kritis di antara jam 11.00 - 15.00.

So, kalo bisa hindari terkena paparan matahari langsung di jam2 itu, jgn lupa pake sunscreen dan banyak minum air putih biar ga dehidrasi yaa! Stay hydrated temen2 semua❤️

[карина ☁️💙 @karinyoo]

aku sebelum nikah pernah diginiin sama kenalanku, katanya dia iri aku bisa jalan-jalan terus (aku dulu freelance toue guide di luar kerja 9-5) sedangkan dia susah kmn2 krn anaknya banyak.

Dulu sempet mikir, ah masa nanti gw kalo nikah bakal kayak dia juga.

Ternyata enggak tuh, aku masih bisa jalan-jalan, nonton konser, seneng2 sama suami.

"Oh belum punya anak aja"

InsyaAllah ya kalo dapet rezeki anak, kita jadikan anak itu sebagai menambah kebahagiaan bukan dianggap sebagai beban hidup.

sampe skrg udah tuh aku dan suami mikirin gimana nanti anak sekolah, saving buat liburan, kerjaan, dll.

Sebel tiap liat konten abis nikah jadi kumel, abis nikah gak bisa kemana2, abis nikah gak bs seneng2.

Like gurl, what's the point of getting married then if it's only bring you misery. I would rather stay single.

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

DNA is really so crazy. Have y’all heard that story about the woman who had a baby with her husband, but when he got a DNA test, it said he wasn’t the father? The mother insisted he was the dad, so they repeated the test multiple times, and it kept saying the same thing. It later came out that, based on the DNA results, he wasn’t the father… but the uncle of the child. Which made no sense because he was an only child. After more extensive testing, they discovered the husband was actually a chimera, meaning he had absorbed his twin in the womb and carried two sets of DNA. So basically… the baby was biologically his twin brother’s child, even though he was the one who fathered it.

[diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️ @mulicantikk]

udah ya

[Syadza @Cilorconnoistre]

HAH?????

[💌 @M1YUHIME]

Princess treatment from men = bare minimum in female friendship btw

[diary depresiku🙆🏻‍♀️ @mulicantikk]

i have a feeling i'm gonna regret letting you slip away 🐧

[✧ @cessonmute]

My coworker ended her five-year marriage over something most people would probably call “small.”
She told me that in their home, she naturally took on the chores. She cooked. She did the laundry. She kept things running. It wasn’t something they formally discussed... it just became the routine. And she went along with it.
Then she got sick. Not just a light cold... the kind where your body feels heavy and even standing up is exhausting. For once, she couldn’t function the way she usually did.
That evening, her husband came home, saw the laundry basket, and separated his clothes from hers. He washed only his. Later, he made himself dinner, plated it, and ate. When she asked if he could make something simple for her too, he replied, “I’m exhausted. I don’t have the energy.”
She said it wasn’t even the words that hurt. It was the absence of instinct. The absence of care. The fact that helping her didn’t occur to him automatically the way serving him had always occurred to her.
That night, lying there sick and hungry, she realized she wasn’t in a partnership. She was in an arrangement where her labor was expected, but his effort was optional.
People think love disappears in dramatic arguments or explosive fights. But sometimes it fades in moments like that... when someone watches you struggle and chooses convenience over compassion.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

When I first got married, I called my mom to complain about some argument my husband and I were having. My mom stopped me right there and said, "unless you are in danger, dont ever let anyone into your marriage, not even me". Its was the best advice I could've ever received as a young wife. It allowed me to take my concerns directly to my husband, think thru how I really feel without someone projecting themselves on me. Gatekeep the marriage.