Behold,the little dreamer from Zambia tht believes in the absurdity that Africa can 1 day become a picture of the transformation tht she envisions in her head.A far fetched dream perhaps,but dreams have a funny way of eventually seeing the light of day...
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It took me 9 years to understand this, I’ll teach it to you in 3 minutes. Here are 12 uncomfortable truths about life...
1.) Never tell everyone everything. Even with your family, maintain your privacy.
Avoidant partners deny issues and are quick to feel smothered.
They cope by clinging to their independence or running from issues.
How To Deal With An Avoidant Partner:
13. You sleep for 1/3 of your entire life. Learn how to optimize it and make it make it as awesome as possible.
14. Memory is fallible. When you have a good idea write it down immediately.
15. Your best ideas come in the shower, walking, or the gym. Keep a notepad ready.
And when you pray tonight…pray for beauty in all aspects of your life. May you receive the most beautiful version of whatever your heart’s desire. Let the beauty of God’s love radiate in your life and shine effortlessly. I need you to know that you deserve nothing but the best.
And when you pray tonight..pray for detail in prayer. I cannot stress how important it is to be specific in your prayers. Whatever you ask for, go in detail.. name it, describe it and watch it come to life. God will answer your prayers word for word. He is able and He will do it.
We think everyone has it figured out. And they don’t. All of us are learning as we go. Doing the best we can. Trying to put on a brave face. Keep that in mind.
No one has it figured out.
Don’t lose hope. You might be hurting now, but out of every disaster, God can bring a new beginning. Believe in God and watch Him show His glory in your life! #JoyceQuote
Your mistakes don't define who you are. It's what you do after you have made the mistakes that makes all the difference.
Every mistake you make is a learning experience. They don't make you less capable. But it's how you correct them or learn from them that defines you.
“Be satisfied with even the smallest progress," Marcus Aurelius said.
You’re never going to be perfect—there is no such thing. You’re human. So instead, aim for progress, even the smallest amount.
We all want secure attachment.
And the best part of our attachment patterns is we can shift them. Through self awareness, practice, and healthy communication.
People with secure attachment have 3 core traits:
1. The ability to not take things personally: this gives them space to understand people close to them aren’t attacking them. It also makes it so they can get to self reflection.
2. The ability to self reflect: this is actually more rare than people realize. Those with secure attachment can self reflect. They can ask “is there truth here?” “Is this valid?” If it is, they face it and begin to integrate. Integration is why people with secure attachment patterns tend to grow and evolve more than those with insecure patterns.
3. The ability to be accountable for their impact: if they self reflect and see that someone has a point, they can be accountable. Instead of deflecting or being defensive they can say “I see where you’re coming from” and “I’m sorry and want to do better.” They create a space to have conversations which is why people in their lives feel safe and heard.
All of us can practice these traits. It’s about hearing things in new ways and responding in new ways. You’ll see how differently people engage with us when we’re not trying to defend our self image or deny their reality.