muak those allah stans always talking abt “org beriman akan lebih diuji” bullshit anjing kasian sialan itu org tewas banyak bgt nyawa semua loh bukan jellly jelly
It’s so gut wrenching that society has managed to mess with her head about what is considered beautiful she is literally one of the most beautiful people in the entire world & it kills me that there is nothing we can really do to help her see that. It’s a struggle most of us face
In a lot of Indonesian communities, pain gets treated as a private failure to manage rather than something that deserves collective care. Divorce, caregiving burnout, grief, surviving an accident, addiction, these are treated like tests of character instead of experiences that—
your dysfunctional parents need to be scared of you to respect you. you have to show your parents that you are insane & they created a person crazier than them. that is the dysfunctional parent psychology.
Patriarchy is so deeply rooted that WOMEN can walk into someone else's house as guests and still somehow end up in the kitchen.
While the MEN even from the host family get to sit back, relax, chill, enjoy the food, and talk about how much they sacrifice for their families. 🙄
friends to lovers is highkey the healthiest and most romantic trope. to know that someone has loved you platonically before they did romantically is just
gue beneran akan selalu mengingatkan kalau queer people is really exist dan nggak, ini bukan cuman tentang fiksi yang lo tonton atau kapal otok-otok lo aja. queer people really exist, it could be your best friends, your online friends, your teacher, or even your bro/sis.