If I’m being completely honest, half the things I went through were because of me, my lack of discipline, ignoring my gut feelings, my inability to set boundaries, say NO when necessary, and my poor decision-making.
i don't know who needs to hear this, but playful rudeness, even between friends, has its limits. you can’t constantly insult and degrade your friends and expect them to just take it and not be affected by it, boundaries are a thing and need to be talked about more often