@BasicallyBrigid yeah ive had so many flakey friends that i’ve just stopped trying to make plans with them and if they make plans with me i just expect them to cancel, because 9 times out of 10 they do
me telling my friend “hey we need to leave” every five minutes for almost an hour and her saying “i know” over and over just so when she finally decides shes ready to leave it turns out we absolutely missed the train into the city is me wanting to control her
constantly wondering why the oversized clothing look doesn't work for me the way it works for other women as if I don't already know the answer is Boobs
shout out to the guy in the park throwing a foam boomerang into a very firm breeze and every time getting bummed when it immediately flies back behind him
@summawott@goddammitgabey thing that’s gets me about the twitter debate is people being like “you cant be upset about it” and like. well, you ARE still making others wait and messing up plans, so yeah that IS upsetting.
the time blindness debate i keep seeing is so frustrating bc yeah it sucks and its hard to manage and its a common symptom of adhd, but also it IS disrespectful when someone is late to everything all the time and saying “my friends just accepted i was always late” is so rude omg
@summawott@goddammitgabey oh yeah sometimes i will be like “ok when this alarm goes off i will do this” and then the alarm goes off and i think “ok when i am done doing this thing i will do that” and then i immediately forget
my friend was supposed to show up the night before my chemo treatment so she could take me in the morning. i waited for hours for her to show up. she texted me at 11pm to say she would just leave super early instead.
she did not.
I'm so tired of lateness being viewed as a moral failing. I've been shamed for it my whole life because it's framed as "disrespect" (and no, it hasn't helped me be more punctual) and if I lost out on a major life opportunity because of it I don't think I could have ever recovered