Requirements for my future wife: has to look inside of my mouth with a flashlight and compliment my cool scar while listening to me complain about choking on half-disintegrated stitches for a month while it healed at least once before the wedding
【Archangel Many】
Archangel Many, who wears a beautiful pink shawl, watches over everyone.
She prays that everyone will be happy this Christmas too.
Her favorite food is galette des rois.
"Women 30+ shouldn't be in fandom"
My bastard in Christ, you wouldn't have the transformative queer fandom we do today if not for women & queer ppl in the 60s & 70s going absolutely batshit for kirkspock, hosting whole events & making zines, respect your matriarchs heathen 🫵🏽😩
me for 27 years of my life: yeah I kinda like lilies but idk flowers aren’t something i feel strongly about
me after I nearly broke down crying at the ren fair because she said she picked a sunflower for me because I’m such a bright spot in her life: sunflowers 5ever ✨🌻✨
look for years I’ve seen the “she guessed my favorite color was yellow - she was right but I didn’t know it was my favorite color until she said it” post & went Lmao Ok Sounds Fake until my gf bought me a sunflower when we were out and I went “guess I have a fave flower now”
Week of 9/1 in Cancer: You will open yourself up in this moment. To what is so obviously true. A spell has been thrown your way. You do not need to catch it.
Like there’s really 0 relief except period starting huh. I have no control over this. Literally 0. Dear god I hate it here. And gotta deep clean my shorts now. But YAY PERIOD STARTED BEFORE MY CUTE DATE TOMORROW SO I’LL ACTUALLY BE ABLE TO FULLY ENJOY IT 🥰🥰🥰
literally the most wild thing about PMDD is going somewhere, feeling awful and grumpy and miserable, halfway through the event suddenly perking up and going “I’m coping SO well good job me” and then you get home and. Period had started.
anyway this is a bit of a humble brag (I’m very good at my job even when I’m in my worst depressive episodes, imagine what I could do if I was mentally stable!!) & also a “ur probs doing better than you think you are, don’t be too hard on urself” reminder for my anxious girlies✨
(it’s 85% PMDD brain that’s incapable of taking any compliment and 5% feeling guilty for being wfh & not working a full 8hr workday p much ever, but 10% is straight delusion that I’m somehow accidentally faking my entire professional career & am entirely inadequate as a person)
manager: you’re awesome, I have no suggestions because I even agree with your goals for improvement, you’re killing it and have made my life much easier by being so competent
me: I’m a fraud and feel disgusting for giving you that impression, I should be shot
me: I don’t think my imposter syndrome is that bad
manager: you’re the first person I’ve done this for but on your review you gave yourself a 5 and I’m also going to give you a 5
me: oh god I’ve SCAMMED him into thinking I’m a great employee what’s wrong with me