I couldn't agree more. The desire is real and don't take it lightly because that's the foundation of marriage. The closer you both are to Allah the closer you will be with each other. If you want a righteous spouse, leave everything haram and cut off connection with non mahrams!
Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله said:
“Do not rely on anyone too much in this world, for even your own shadow will desert you when you are in the darkness.”
{Majmu al-fatwa, 10/80}
I'm so serious, if you stop using your creativity, imagination and thinking abilities you will LOSE them. Millions of people willingly giving up their intellects, the very thing that makes them human, is a nightmare straight out of our darkest science-fictions.
Commit to doing 300 salawat and 1000+ istighfar every day and see if your life doesn’t change
Allah SWT has given us all the tools that we need to become successful in this world and the next but it’s up to us to implement them
Imam Al Ghazali on the prophet’s ﷺ mercy.
The prophet ﷺ said:
“Reconcile with whoever cuts you off, give to whoever deprives you, and forgive whoever wrongs you.”
[Ahmad 17452]
The Prophet ﷺ was the most forbearing of people and the most inclined to pardon,
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PLEASE guys I was the one who convinced him we would be able to help. This is fully verified and extremely urgent. The longer we take to meet the target, the longer these children have to sleep in soaking wet freezing makeshift tents.
Just because you did something wrong in the past doesn't mean you can't advocate against it now. You are not a hypocrite for being on the right path. Always be confident with the truth, don’t let anyone weaken you. Don’t let people use your past to invalidate your mindset.