i genuinely do not believe people treat you how they feel about you. i believe they treat you based on the state of mind they're in. some people unintentionally hurt you because they are at war with themselves suffering, and suffering with things that has nothing to do with you.
Being in your 30s is realizing you can actually just... leave. The relationship. The friendship. The room. The situation. You don’t need to stay anywhere that doesn’t feel good anymore.