The Jaam Podcast addresses men with the mindset that every man who defends a woman wants to sleep with her—after Klay Thompson attacked one of them for defending Megan Thee Stallion:
"It's crazy how you men have made this a thing, it just shows how dumb y'all are"
I’ve been saying “who’s that?” to every White person who asks me if I heard about Charlie Kirk, so they have to explain to me who he is, why I would know him, watching them explain in detail the situation and standing in silence as they do so. It’s been an interesting experiment.
You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fuck up, & actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time shit gets real.
I won't let you people gaslight me into thinking intellectual mismatch is not a thing in romantic relationships. It is not even about formal degrees or booksmarts. It shows up in things like curiousity, conversational depth, imagination, openness, and worldviews.
Most ppl don’t realise: You can be technically honest & still manipulate the entire reality. Omission of the truth isn’t honesty. We applaud transparency but rarely question the quiet. Some ppl say 90% of the truth while deliberately hiding the 10% that would change a decision.
I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and walk away