It has taken me 10 yrs of heckling to convince my mother that leftovers don’t need to “cool down” on the counter for 2-3 hours before going in the fridge
when I was young, the red sauce was invariably the spicier option and the green sauce was milder. these days, the green sauce may be much spicier than the red. social change is truly miraculous
i’m not even saying that as a Vibe…. i really think identifying too hard with victimhood when you get hurt in relationships can make you lose your sense of Integrity and start being weird
cancer moon here - feeling unlovable + wanting desperately for the future to show us that we are worth the effort and time to be truly known + that after all of that, someone will still choose us
there is something very ugly ducking, humiliation ritual, beauty and the beast, eeyore, little miss sunshine, putting lipstick on a pig about cancer placements
And ion like titi but yall can dead those ai photos, save the water for something more productive and less anti black. at the end of the day let’s not contribute to masculinizing a bw
ugh i commented on a post in Lesbians of Austin calling out cultural appropriation bc this white last with dreads named Samadhi posted asking if she’ll be welcomed by the community and ofc a bunch of white ladies are liking her responses or coming to her defense