tightening a little here, loosening a little there, giving them little lectures, little stories, little hugs and kisses, little admonishments, little pats on the back.
Parents who devote time to their children even when it is not demanded by glaring misdeeds will perceive in them subtle needs for discipline, to which they will respond with gentle urging or reprimand or structure or praise, administered with thoughtfulness and care.
They will observe how their children eat cake, how they study, when they tell subtle falsehoods, and when they run away from problems rather than face them. They will take the time to make these minor corrections and adjustments, listening to their children, responding to them,
not ignoring people or making them feel unworthy of a reply is the simplest indicator of human decency and being able to see beyond your own reference point and convenience.
@tamkhan@MikeTyson so easily satisfied and impressed with the most lukewarm and borderline neutral statements. maybe if Muslims like yourself weren’t so spineless and demanded honor and integrity from Muslim celebrities, then we wouldn’t be begging for recognition on the mainstream stage
“Grief is perhaps the last and final translation of love. This is the last act of loving someone. And you realize that it will never end. You get to do this to translate this last act of love for the rest of your life.”
“In this space right here
that we have made for each other,
you can say anything
and I will not abandon you.
Unwrap the worst things you have done.
Watch me hold them up to the light
and not even flinch.”
this concept of prevenient grace becomes all the more beautiful when many a times the impulse to turn to God arises after a sin is committed. so after we've rebelled against him, he sprouts within us the desire to turn back to Him. God is so Great.
before man can seek God, God must first have sought man - before a sinful man can think a right thought of God, there must have been a work of enlightenment done within him, which is the cause of all desiring and seeking and praying which may follow.
2 - Spiritual Value of Being Anonymous - Syed Asad Jafri - Ramadhan 1444 https://t.co/fKd7gzPUbf
syed asad jafri never disappoints, i love this phenomenal mini-lecture series of his on such a relevant and important topic
“It’s part of our human condition: We want to be known. We want to be great. And God is whispering it to our love-hungry hearts: You already are. You are known. You are loved. You are approved. Look how much.”
— Ann Voskamp
just so u know everything in the entire universe is always about love and when it isn't about love it is abt the absence of love. hope this makes sense