Marriage only benefits a woman when the man is truly capable of leading, providing, and protecting. Otherwise she’s just adding responsibilities to a life she already manages alone.
Hasta que no salgas con un hombre generoso (no dije rico), entenderás que a los hombres les encanta cuidar a su mujer. No esperan a que se les pida, encuentran alegría en hacerlo, toman la iniciativa, es un placer para ellos. Generosos en tiempo, emoción y acción.
Niñas, consejo de vida: Más que un hombre con plata, elijan uno generoso. Ese que de donde no tiene, saca por verlas felices. Hay manes con plata muuuuy tacaños.
and i’ll marry a man
who plans for the future and includes me in it. a man who doesn’t just dream out loud but actually sees me standing beside him in those dreams. someone who isn’t afraid of commitment, who can talk about marriage, family, and shared goals. someone who doesn’t just say “someday,” but shows through his actions that he means every word. he will think about where we’ll be in five or ten years, and hell make choices that consider us both. he’ll ask for my thoughts, listen to my ideas, and see my dreams as just as meaningful as his own. he’ll plan for our home, our finances, and the family we’ll build. because love alone can fade without direction, so i’ll marry someone who makes plans with me, not just someone who talks about it
When I become a wife, one of my greatest priorities will be to create a home my man can't wait to return to a place where he feels deeply respected, loved, valued and completely at peace.