Adoring wife, proud mom, fun-loving, Michigan State Spartan fan, in that order. MI raised, VA chosen. Football 🏈 and marching band mom! USAF Veteran.❤ my crew.
Someone needs to hear this: many people smile and laugh not because they think something is funny but because they’re deeply uncomfortable and don’t know what else to do.
Many people believe they can hold someone accountable.
The truth is: we can't make any adult do something they don't want to do.
Accountability is an inside job.
@Theholisticpsyc Learning how to fight fairly is paramount to having that conflict and growing from it. When there is always a power imbalance, avoiding conflict feels the best. 😕
Please consider that the person you get frustrated with for not saying how they feel, doesn’t know how to. Then consider all the times they’ve tried to share before & were shut down. There’s a reason people have difficulty expressing themselves. Trust, they’re frustrated too.