i'm sorry but séx will never be enough just for me to stick around. I need my soul fed. Spiritual growth. Deep conversations. Genuine effort. Emotional intelligence. Consistency.
Semalam aku ngobrol mendalam dengan salah satu teman cowokku yang baru saja melamar pacarnya. Alasan dia akhirnya mantap memutuskan kalau perempuannya ini adalah "The One" benar-benar membuka mataku tentang bagaimana psikologi komitmen laki-laki bekerja. Ini pelajaran mahal dari sudut pandang teman cowokku
My favorite line from Atomic Habits has been living in my head rent-free:
“It doesn’t make sense to continue wanting something if you’re not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don’t want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment.”
i hate how social media makes people forget that life has stages. it's normal to be broke, to have broke friends or partners and yes it's even normal to be unemployed at times. these are phases we all go through.
some people are lucky enough to find good jobs at a young age and afford a certain lifestyle. others take longer and that's perfectly okay. we need to stop comparing ourselves and start accepting our journey. i just want all of us to be at peace with where we are in life while still working and striving for better.
No quiero que romanticen nuestro sufrimiento , ya hemos perdido a muchos de los nuestros haciendolo.
Puerto Rico es un país que merece florecer, se le olvidó a la gente hace mucho que Puerto Rico se merece respeto más que nada.
wanting intimacy but refusing to participate in hookup culture because i'm only sexually attracted whenn i'm emotionally attached to someone is its own hell
creo que tengo una adicción of having fun cabron y when i feel like i havent me da depresión pero estaba viendo mi camera roll y literal ive been having so much fun todas estas semanas like tengo las memorias mas wholesome y mas crazy why tf am i sad