don’t let anyone shame you for wanting a soft fucking life. it’s not your problem that people are addicted to suffering and burning themselves out to get a desired outcome bc it SIMPLY doesn’t have to be that way. we weren’t put on earth to SUFFER, pay bills and die.
idk how many diff ways i can convey this to you but… THEY ARE NOT WORTH IT. not worth your discomfort, your tears, your feelings of being misunderstood, your explanation, your understanding, your patience, your peace of mind, your self respect, none of it.
If the vibes get weird, move on. Let this be the last year you force conversations, friendships, relationships, attention and love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. Your life naturally makes room for the people who are meant to be there. Just go with the flow.
Crying for help is not something people do if they don’t need help. If you’re “seeking attention” it’s because you are lonely, or scared, or not okay. You need support and human connection. So why is society’s response to that scenario to withhold it!!?