After you get married, you’re going to meet ‘better’ people than your spouse. You’re going to meet more good-looking people; kinder and more romantic people; more intelligent and funny people.
You will meet people who have in abundance what your partner lacks. The mushy and romanticized idea that your partner will be everything to you, and will satisfy all your needs and wants is idolatry. Contentment in marriage is a virtue not often spoken about.
You must wake up every day appreciating everything your partner is to you, everything they have, their beauty and the things that made you marry them because if you focus on everything they don’t do well, you’ll always meet better people.
Protect your heart! See their best part, and always remember that your commitment to marry is more of a duty than it is of mushy feelings. You have to stay committed even on the days you feel your spouse is no longer the best fit for you.
turns out, reading a lot, exercising, loving people without expecting anything back, protecting your alone time, focusing only on improving yourself, and sometimes staying out late with friends who make you laugh until it hurts is a pretty good way to live.
You will marry a bombshell.
You will have a ridiculous amount of children.
You will get home from a work trip late at night after they’re all asleep and then wake up the next morning to a throng of tiny humans in pajamas jumping on you and laughing.
You will drink your coffee as your wife sits in the rocking chair with your laughing baby.
BELIEVE
whenever i go too long without having sex i start to have really dark thoughts like “i wish i was in a relationship so that i could have sex with someone i love consistently”
Major cheat code for life: Get organized. Just get your sh*t together, really. Stop creating emergencies for yourself by being all over the place. Pick a direction. Focus. Lock in. Discipline doesn't remove every problem, but it prevents a shocking number of avoidable ones.
Every self-respecting man reaches a point in his life where he grows so disgusted by his own unfulfilled potential.
He realizes his stress is not a byproduct of the work, but the work he failed to do. The sleep lost was not from the risk taken, but the opportunity he bypassed. The anxiety was not at all pathological, but a divine signal of what he was capable of all along.
The problem is as timeless as the antidote: It is the discomfort. It is the boredom. It is the immunity to uncertainty.
It is the work.
@Marchfoward No giliran aku ambik dua kali sebab ambik dekat rumah, sebelum smapai dah sampai giliran. Ambik otw parking and jalan ke kaunter ambik kali kedua.
@Marchfoward Utc Keramat, masuk parking and keluar parking dalam 30 minit. No joke. Buat time lunch hour. Sempat lagi aku pergi beli nasi kerabu mok nab.
Physical attractiveness is largely how healthy you are.
An underappreciated corollary is that mental attractiveness is also largely just how healthy you are. Playfulness, joy, happiness, responsivity, non-reactivity, are basically just read outs of how well regulated your nervous system is.
Here's the thing that a lot of people are missing here. Read her physiognomy.
"Indoctrinated reluctant girl boss"
For any of you that know these types of women she is convinced that she is entitled to a 1% man.
It's not the fact men won't provide, they do, but she is aiming for a lane that she shouldn't even be in, and men are seeing this and are no longer participating.