i'm sorry but sex will never be enough just for me to stick around. I need my soul fed. Spiritual growth. Deep conversations. Genuine effort. Emotional intelligence. Consistency.
Merry Christmas to those of you who have difficult relationships with your family. Those of you spending christmas without a loved one. Those of you going through break ups. Those of you in bad places. It’s okay if all of you do today/tomorrow is survive. You’ve got this.
There’s a big difference between a man who wants you and a man who knows deep in his soul that you are the only one for him. One will just give you attention while the other will do whatever it takes to face his fears, heal his wounds, and give you the world.
I think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner, is a partner who is considerate. Someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you're feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe.
Idk, I’m really a flowers and love letters type girl fr. Soft love, real effort, handwritten feelings, intentional romance. Bring back that era where love was gentle, thoughtful, and actually meant something. I want consistency, affection, and somebody who love loud without being asked.
This man said “you’re too sensitive.”
I told him “No,you’re too comfortable.”
He said “comfortable with what?”
I said “disrespecting me and expecting me to smile.”
It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. A woman feeds off of his energy. This is why showing up for her and being consistent is so important. She can't feel safe with you if you're not leading properly.
i lied.
i don't like nonchalant men. i need a man whose face lights up when he sees me, who texts me even about the smallest things, who wants to know how my day went, who actually shows that he cares. i want someone who makes time, not excuses. someone who matches my energy, who's not afraid to show the world that i'm his, who's proud to have me.