Doing this new thing where I try to cancel out my “This person doesn’t actually like me” brain worms by activating my “It is imperative not to harm a loved one” directive with the observation “This person would feel hurt by being doubted like that”
we recently learned that poor sperm quality--not egg or uterus age--is the cause of the miscarriages, complications, and congenital disabilities that older pregnant women have been blamed for. i laugh when men 35+ talk about "eventually" wanting kids. the vet needs to neuter you!