My village has been vocal about recognising me for my integrity. It was never something I sat with before, although it was always the essence of my character. Bringing it to the forefront of my awareness has allowed me to be a lot more fearless. Fearless was my word for 2024.
Many talk about the importance of safety in healthy relationships. But until we work on our own core wounds, attachment trauma & unconscious relationship templates —- someone who is good for us can feel scary while someone who isn’t can be the one we feel most attracted to.
Seeing young men turn away from the Red Pill community, come to therapy, face their traumas and their fragility, gives me hope. Every generation there's another weapon sent to destruct young men, from crack to Red Pill, they're plasters over deep wounds. It's time to heal.
We only crossed paths for me to introduce you to a part of yourself that the shadows of your trauma didn’t allow you to see; and for you to do the same for me. Thank you, and you’re welcome.
It's your responsibility to say what you mean and mean what you say. Miscommunication is often a result of saying one thing, meaning another, and expecting people to be able to read your mind instead of what you actually expressed.
I love trees. They remind me of my ancestors. When a tree is cut from its roots, the roots of the surrounding trees communicate with each other to bring new life to the wounded tree. My ancestors are constantly guiding me to pieces of our truth that make me whole again.