Myviewas_jay

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@MarinatedTurks Most women issue loans with invisible repayment terms. You’ll think it’s free until the invoice arrives later 😂

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@Adhekunbi You are encouraging transactional relationships, be careful what you normalize. Love shouldn’t be reduced to an exchange of benefits. This kind of message you promote today will influence the values the next generation gradually

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@yabaleftonline What matters is her mindset, values, and willingness to grow. If a man ignores those qualities and focuses only on physical attraction, they’re likely building the relationship on a weak foundation.

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@Aduradara61049 Maybe he didn’t approach you because he saw a potential distraction, or he assumed the interaction would become transactional. Many men aren’t clueless, they’re simply more cautious about who they invest their time, energy, and resources in.

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@john322226 Many of the deviant behaviors we see among young people today can be traced to poor upbringing, single parenting and unstable home environments. Strong values, discipline, and guidance at home remain some of the greatest foundations for raising responsible adults.

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@DurkioWiz So advertising yourself in a sexually explicit way and saying anything for engagement is now called creativity? Omo we’ve really lowered the bar.

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One decision at a time.
Before making your next choice, don’t ask:

“Will this matter today?”

Ask:

“If I repeated this decision for the next five years, where would it lead me?”

That question has a way of changing everything.

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The most expensive decisions you’ll ever make often look cheap in the beginning.
That’s why so many people don’t see the cost until it’s too late.

Here’s what I mean,

Imagine someone who says,

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The same is true in the opposite direction, big problems usually begin as small compromises,
debt often starts with one unnecessary purchase, broken trust often starts with one small lie, poor health often starts with one ignored habit.

Success and failure are built the same way

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@ChisomAgbafor Please where’s the man in all of this ??

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@pallnandi It’s sad that most women don’t understand the value of support and encouragement in a relationship. That’s why choosing an intelligent, mature, and capable partner matters.

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@thebigdammy You can’t just conclude that every man can’t go a month without sex. Some men have the discipline and self-control to do so. Stop projecting your assumptions onto everyone.

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@silverpenydr Many women celebrate divorce because commitment is no longer valued. Marriage isn’t sustained by convenience it takes sacrifice, patience, and responsibility

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@Faridatu001 I’m not encouraging promiscuity in men but society often judges women’s sexual behavior differently, Think of it like a precious jewel, the more carefully it’s protected, the more valuable people perceive it to be.

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@thebigdammy For me, intimacy goes far beyond sex. My favorite kind is being able to listen to each other, exchange ideas about life, finances, investments, and build a shared vision for the future. That’s the kind of connection that lasts.

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@BalogunSonia4 One of the clearest signs of immaturity is expecting a relationship to work without compromise. If someone isn’t willing to meet you halfway, they may not value the relationship as much as they claim.