Before you enter a marriage, discuss
-bills
-career
-religion
-finance
-dream home
-political views
-parenting style
-family influence
-sex expectations
-childhood traumas
-family health history
-partner expectations
-beliefs to be instilled in kids
Love alone is not enough
the pure hearted win in the end. not because they don’t face challenges, but because they stay in integrity despite their challenges. and that will always be rewarded.
Men will lose the best woman they’ll ever have and go to the gym 7 days a week, go to church, build a relationship w Christ, start drinking green juice, read self help books and go on hikes with their dog, brother why didn’t you just do that with the woman
things women are punished for:
- being mothers
- not being mothers
- being religious
- not being religious
- having sex bc “whore”
- not having sex bc “prude”
- dating within their race bc male entitlement
- dating outside of their race bc male entitlement
- getting married
- not getting married
- being stay at home wives/moms
- being working wives/moms
- being the family breadwinner
- not being the breadwinner
- having any political or ideological leaning or opinion ever
- playing video games
- not playing video games
- being into sports bc it’s “fake”
- not being into sports bc she’s “vapid and too girly”
non-exhaustive list btw