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[hayley🐞 @coffeeandacheck]

never mind 🗣️🗣️ never mind🗣️
i’ll forget about it🗣️🗣️🗣️
i’ll be good🗣️ i’ll be fine🗣️
i can laugh about it🗣️🗣️🗣️

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

You think you know someone and then they tell you they like running

[ju’selah ☆ @blonded009]

i want to be in love at the bar #mytruth

[lezzo ❤️‍🔥 @dykegrrl]

some of you would really benefit from looking into what a chapstick lesbian is and leaving the butch/femme labels alone

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

the worst person yk always has the biggest community rallying behind them

[Kitsi Sebati @itsibitsikitsi]

When I lost both my parents, I didn’t personally notify everyone. I barely knew which way was up. People heard & simply arrived with food, alcohol, tissues, hugs, prayers and LOVE. Grief is not the time for friendship admin or personalised invitations.

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

Funerals and moments where your friends are going through a hard time don’t need invitations for you to show up and be there for them

[Mo🧚🏼 @Pearlyi_n_]

As a friend if you lose your parent and you don’t tell me but post about it on socials I’m not gonna come to the funeral 👍🏿 I’m that strict

[Nyar’Maragoli @YaaMaragoliBa]

Burials and funerals do not have invitation cards! You show up in solidarity. You show up because that is what community and friendship demands.

[sea @signetofreverie]

-label is similar to what's happening to the lesbian label with people complaining about it being too "restrictive". if you think it's policing to say butch is only for people who are visibly gnc then sorry this butchfemme shit just isn't for you! the simple truth is that most-

[ÍCARO 🇪🇨🇵🇷 @bigbutchicxrus]

This entire thread! Especially this part. Butches, historically, wear their gender identity/expression/alignment on their sleeve. Thats the entire point.

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

@Pearlyi_n_ Sometimes posting on socials where everyone can see is the easiest way to tell everyone instead of having to call multiple people and tell them about the worst moment of your life over and over again. Learn to be a more considerate friend bc it’s not about you and how you feel rn

[Bolu Babalola @BeeBabs]

Grief has such a funny way of revealing people in your life. Like there are some people who you could tell waited for it to be "less fresh" so they could talk to you as normal, as if nothing happened, like your life did not change without acknowledging. It feels insulting

[dj franzia @hawillisdc]

the concept of “having a person”/fate/soulmates is much less romantic than the truth which is that the foundation for all types of relationships is agency and mutual consent. choosing each other in every season and evolution. the beauty is in *choice.*

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

a work flirtationship where we never speak and only interact through lingering eye contact or the occasional smile everytime we pass by each other

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

maybe I’ll just switch to dating other mascs…

[𝔦🪆 @angelicdeed]

and yes your best friends should let you beat the dead horse as long as you fucking want without making you feel shamed

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

Blew off work and drove 40mins to my friends house to meet and befriend their new masc roommate

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

Having wine with my subway bc I’m 28 and can do whatever tf I want

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

@driverjoleen_ You’re convinced me to rewatch

[pau @n0brainc3lls]

Cooked for the first time in weeks #depressiondontevenknowher