Why do you guys assume people who speak on financial matters are broke? I’m broke because I don’t want to be used for a quick Instagram story and a photo dump?
Cape Town is a South African city and belongs to Black South Africans as much as Nelspruit, Johannesburg and Mafikeng. Please stop referring it to as mini Europe. Not even as a joke.
Most men don’t mind spending money on a woman they like. What men hate is feeling used, tolerated or emotionally transactional.
A lot of women could get far more from men just by being warm, appreciative, attentive & making a man feel desired.
Modern dating is so focused on leverage, power and ‘what can you provide’ that a lot of people forgot seduction is psychological before it’s financial.
And this is what most modern women don’t understand & lack today, the art of seduction.