I want my child to outdo me in every way. Be smarter. Go further. Heal faster. Win bigger. I’m not raising a mini-me, I’m raising an upgraded edition. A BETTER version.
Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Realizing that you’re incompatible with someone (because they don’t meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) & choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. Like look how much you’ve grown.
Ngl the healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.