if you’re a sensitive woman, you better involve yourself in charity work or helping/working with children. pour all your love and nurturing into the poor, the weak, and children. it’s better than feeling motherly toward evil people just because you see the child in them.
"for you, i would" is such a gentle & sweet love language. like, no, maybe i wouldn't usually do this, but i would love to do it if it would make you happy.
hatiku besar, semoga dilapangkan apa yang bukan buatku. hatiku besar, semoga suatu hari aku bisa jadi burung supaya bisa lihat semuanya dari jauh, gak dihalangin sama tembok dan plafon kamarku lagi
many dead people walking around. no empathy, no emotional intelligence, no good intentions for anyone. just looking to covet people's energy and sabotage who they can covet or manipulate.
the wizard liz is a lesson because you can't ignore the premise she built her platform on. her whole brand was "you are the operant power in your reality, so you manifest everything, including the men who hurt you", and that framing leaves no room for any woman to be a victim of anything. she is always the one to blame.
she often told women who complained about their relationships to look at their own energy because they were calling shitty men in, flattening their real pain and abuse into self-blame. this is one of the most evil possible uses for manifestation in my opinion. she is now finding out, in the worst possible way, that women's systemic oppression isn't that simple and cannot be individually manifested away.
her content went viral because it was abrasive, shocking, and lacking in nuance. you cannot spend years stripping context from other women's stories and then expect context for your own when you find out a man pretended to be a different person just to trap you into pregnancy and then go full sociopathic abuser on you. according to HER, she manifested that shit! whatever grace she gets now, she'll have to receive from the women she trained not to give it.
if you believe in manifestation, you also have to believe there is a structure behind reality itself. for manifestation to even function as a concept, there has to be a substrate underneath it. higher dimensions, soul contracts/ancestral baggage, karmic debt, archetypes, divine timing, free will, other souls also manifesting and intersecting with your timeline. otherwise it turns into something unbelievably ugly and with very harmful consequences to the people you're trying to guide.