Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants and chooses you loudly. Morning calls. Good night messages. Quick replies. No mind games. No leaving you guessing. He gives time, attention and real effort. He makes you feel safe, valued, and noticed. And when he's committed, he's all in, on you and you alone.
My therapist once said "growth is realizing that someone's inconsistency is a sign to step back, not a challenge to prove your worth" and i think y'all need to engrave this into your soul.