@JakahDotNet@rep_princess I’m also extremely feminine and ≈5 ft tall. I think it’s a dynamic you have to establish early on in the relationship in non-sexual ways. All of the men I’ve been with naturally shrink into a submissive role because my personality is too domineering I guess
refractory period is hot idfc what anyone says. needy man can’t get it up yet but wants to? pleasures his partner while he has to wait?? being so desperate he tries to put it in soft??? like you gotta make it work For you