i saw an article called "make peace with your unlived life" and it really made me stop and think. so much of our lives is mourning for what we didn't become. It's a waste. we didn't waste any opportunities. what came and went was not meant for us
You'll never live like common people
You'll never do whatever common people do
You'll never fail like common people
You'll never watch your life slide out of view
Gimana ya caranya menamai duka anak-anak yang … gak pernah neko-neko, gak kriminal, tapi ironisnya malah harus ke psikolog karena JUSTRU dia “anak yang baik”.
Mereka berusaha kasih semua karena percaya jadi anak baik akan membuat mereka aman, tapi ternyata enggak.
gue pengen banget bisa memeluk diri gue, anak perempuan kuat itu
gue pengen dia tau bahwa dia ga perlu merasa gagal, gue pengen dia tau bahwa segala ketidaktahuan dan ketidakmampuannya itu bukan sebuah kesalahan, gue pengen dia tau bahwa dia kuat sekali sampai detik ini dan itu cukup.
tiap ada opini bodoh rasanya gue pgn ngomong "kyk ga sekolah/lu sekolah ga sih" but on the deeper level i feel like it's not entirely their fault since pendidikan di sini emg ga merata so i just sit back and