I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.
I cnt go on no trips with skinny ppl no more. They never hungry. How we in Vegas and ain’t ate nothing damn near. Every time I ask if she hungry she say no 😩😂
I work on myself because I understand that I am responsible for where I end up. Not for everything that happened to me, but for every response, every habit, and every decision I made after it. That distinction is everything. Blame is easy. Ownership is what actually changes your life.
Your job is important but, so are your workouts, your lunch breaks, vacation days, hobbies, the people waiting for you when you get home.
Works pays for your life. It isn't supposed to replace it.
Everybody should just get sweeter. Start apologizing when you know you wrong, take your time with people, and hug people more often. No crazy shit, but create the world you wanna see