Dating someone who has been single for a long time is really difficult, when you make a small mistake , he or she has already made peace with you and returned to being single without you knowing .
@KaroroMitchelle That’s why it’s important to heal you past relationship traumas before getting into another relationship. It doesn’t matter how long the break was, if you don’t do the internal work- you’ll always be projecting your fears onto your new partner
Nobody owes you anything. And even if they do, there's more to friendship/relationship than what people do/don't do for you today.
Be careful not to sacrifice built rapports over unaccessed help that you'd even survive without. You have no idea what you may be missing out later.
I recently read a quote "Trauma is not your fault, but healing is your responsibility.” For reasons I am still exploring, this has just never set well with me.
It breaks my heart when y’all act like y’all don’t care about dates, birthdays, and holidays because the person you’re with does not care to make it special for you.
I’ve been chewing on something Tracee Ellis Ross said on a podcast. She was talking about being worried about making wrong decisions in life and messing up the course of her “destiny,” and eventually realized you can’t mess it up. YOU CAN’T MESS IT UP!
I don’t ever want a man to settle 4 me. get yo dream girl & if u can't, don't bother me. i want a man obsessed W me, that got the biggest crush on me, that won’t ever get tired of me .