A grown man will act all stern and tough and stoic in front of other guys, but then you get him alone and ask him “Who wants some snuggles and scritchies??” and he’ll be like “Omg meeeee :3 👉👈”
Capitalism has the strangest survivorship bias. It celebrates the handful who made it as proof the system works, while the billions who didn’t are treated as personal failures, not evidence of design