Home training and strict parenting prevented me from:
1. Smoking
2. Drug use
4. Inking (tattoo)
5. Campus cult
6. Fraud (yahoo)
7. Armed robbery
Don’t care what you say, but I am using same templates to raise my children.
“Extreme virtue is often a disguise for deep chaos.”
Many overly religious women (and men too) aren’t acting from conviction — they’re acting from compensation.
They use religion as a mask to:
Suppress guilt they haven’t processed
Bury past behaviors they’re ashamed of
Avoid taking real accountability for their shadow side
Appear “safe” while hiding deep emotional volatility
When someone is performing perfection — instead of living truth — it becomes control, not faith.
They’ll often use religion to manipulate, shame, or control others, because that’s how they control themselves.
The issue isn't faith.
Faith is beautiful when it’s integrated with honesty and self-awareness.
But when someone hasn’t faced their own darkness, they weaponize “light” against everyone else.
A truly spiritual woman is not performative.
She’s calm, grounded, soft — because she’s made peace with her chaos.
Watch actions, not declarations.
Because the louder the righteousness, the deeper the wound it hides.
I have internal hatred for Nigerian men who pee by the roadside.
This should be a relationship deal breaker. If your man pees by the roadside, you are dating rubbish.
@john322226 Recovery is Possible.
My addiction separated my family, but I am a changed person now and actively working to get my family back.
For real recovery is possible Nexa.
Stay strong.
Had to share a photo so we know you are not alone 💛
Dear God,
Heal my brokenness, ease my anxieties, and remove financial struggles. Bring destiny helpers into my life and guide me toward success, fulfilment, and lasting financial freedom. Amen.
Rice! See the sinful looking palm oil which is by all standards unhealthy according to @aproko_doctor. Serve me that with any chilled drink that does tshhh when you uncork it. YOLO!