I know she doesn't do that on purpose and I know she cares about me, but it stresses me out. I have severe anxiety and I overthink a lot. This kind of worrying in relationships is likely caused by both my exes.
I suppose I could have asked him to stop coming around, but I was scared he would become hostile. He walked around with a gun and clearly some weird mental behaviors imo. What was worse? I parked at the very outskirts of the parking lot at the grocery store I worked.