Last night I refused more money from an unemployed sub (in the hundreds) because I knew that it would take the play from fun to detrimental. Findom is an addiction for most, and dommes hold the power to show mercy and enforce limitsโฆ
Dear findom,
Something I spoke to my therapist about regarding boundaries. And to the women of findom, please know I love you, respect you and am not casting a shadow upon you. This is just my observation, corroborated by my therapist who deals with findom addiction.
Given my particular weaknesses, begging for debt and ruin, even if clear boundaries are set beforehand, there are few dommes (if any) I've sessioned with that won't push you past your limits. And I mean this financially as well as protecting my mental health.
I've done over 100 sessions and nearly every domme will push past your boundaries if you are weak.
The only way to play safe is for you to protect yourself.
Don't ever get into a situation where you are dependant on a domme to protect you if you can't protect yourself.
And please don't mansplain RACK and SSC to me.
Thereโs a pair of my fucked up blue tns in the bin outside. Shall I fish them out so that my new toy can lick them clean? He deserves a special treat
LOL Iโve drained this cuck of everything he has the last 24 hours and he STILL wants to be the one to round me up. Financial ruin or mercy, financial ruin or mercyโฆ ๐คญ๐