can y'all gays stop spreading the idea that homophobic men are gay men in denial. It perpetuates the idea that we are our own oppressor and removing accountability of actual homophobes ; cis-straight people, religious institutions, corrupt government.
"i didn't. i wouldn't" is just sooo tragic... what if you try so hard to be good and responsible and rational and then discover there are parts of you capable of things you can't even remember doing. i'm sorry i couldn't save you taissa turner