Men don't just marry for love. Many marry for guaranteed sex, unpaid household labor, and a personal life manager. Deep down, they know it. They just don't like hearing it.
Ten lazy years can disappear the moment you lock in. Six months of discipline can erase a decade of drifting. Momentum is magic. It turns yesterday's failures into tomorrow's fuel.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Glad you’re ok. This is why it’s important to date a serious guy. Imagine now you call your man and he’s at Rockets sucking on a hubbly and drinking Hennessy. He wouldn’t have been able to come 🤦🏾♂️🤕
Major life hack: Don't complain, ever. Nobody likes a complainer. They drain the energy of everyone around them. It's exhausting spending time around someone who constantly complains about things outside their control. If it's within your control, go do something about it. If it's not, you're just wasting energy thinking about it. Complaining gives too much power to the thing. Take back that power.
Remember this: even if you go for it and it doesn't work out, you still win. you had the guts to head into the unknown and try something that scared you. this type of bravery takes you places.
I'm a big fan of the "GPS Theory" when you miss a turn, your GPS doesn't judge you, it recalculates. No matter how many detours you take, it finds another way forward. Life works like that too. You'll make mistakes, but your destination doesn't vanish. The route just changes.
men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates.
what are you really here for??