Aku tak dijemput ke majlis kawan aku. Tapi aku okay.
Proximity orang kepada kita, tak sama dengan proximity kita kepada orang.
Bermaksud mungkin pada kita, dia rapat. Pada dia, kita tak serapat itu.
Sebab tu tak dijemput. And that’s okay.
risau birth rate menurun, tapi when women fight for women’s rights, we are asked with ‘so kitorang boleh pukul korang lah kan’. mothers are also ridiculed if they undergo caesarian. you don’t care that women have to work twice as harder to be recognised. when women
Please la all gen z buat ni. As a millenial, I just wanna see future generation ada semangat to actually sambung belajar and see working in corporate isn't necessarily a bad thing. I'm too lazy to do it myself, so yea, passing it to you guys. Thanks
People will project their own anger, sadness, or in this case bitterness towards others who have what they don’t (or can’t) have. Happy people rarely judge or comment negatively on others 😊
This is true when I was younger I didn’t understand why my grandma used to go to a lot of things she was invited to. But now I am older I really get it, friendship at the core of it is about showing up. So now I too make an effort to make time to show up.
Good things will come to you when good things come from you. You will attract what you are. The goodness of this world is offered to those who are doing good for this world. When you radiate positive energy, you attract more of the same.
A man will visit his in-laws and be treated like royalty but a woman will visit her in-laws and be expected to audition for the role of a maid. The game is rigged.
10 days more for the wedding and I already want to get it over with. Funny how people who gave you so much hope (even years before the wedding) did nothing and people whom you never thought would help are the ones supporting you.
Normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in you regardless of what they tell you. Giving you all of the right words, but none of the right actions is called manipulation. If they wanted to, they would – you're either a priority or you're not.
Maybe people from unhappy families are not meant to have a calm, peaceful and happy wedding. The mess just has to be dragged to the next generation regardless of how hard they have worked to make things better.
One thing people don't tell you about planning a Tamil wedding is how much guilt tripping, gaslighting and manipulation is involved. You just can't avoid it even if you are the one funding it 100%. Why can't fully grown, highly educated adults make their own decisions?
Never realised how lonely and alone I really am until I started planning my wedding. Bala meets friends every weekend to hand out invites and I don't even have people to vent to. Maybe I protected my peace a little too much. Maybe I shouldn't have left JB 😔
wanna update here some kurung cotton with bunga kecil-kecil molek. plus as low as RM50 only! you might need a new baju kurung hehe ♥️
— shall save for later too