“... the people who are the most broken, the most helpless, are the people God often uses the most.” - Permission To Speak Freely by Anne Jackson, a book so worth reading
@TarotByBronx The thing is ... When we dont heal we keep attracting or accepting the same type of people over and over again.
So i think that in order to attract the relationship we need to heal, we need to raise our vibration in some way...
Don't you think?
I wanna also add, it is healthy to take time for yourself if you endure toxic or abusive relationships to reflect on where you need to do things differently instead of avoiding the inner work. But don’t avoid all connection entirely. You don’t have to stay alone to heal.
The key is finding people who will give you the security and safety to work through your triggers when they come up, not to avoid them forever. Wounds caused by relationships can be healed by them as well.
You can literally be single for months-years and avoid people thinking you’re healing but then all of those same triggers will resurface once you finally connect with someone again. There’s certain healing that can only be done while in connection.
Married at first sight is a much better show than love is blind. Love is blind producers only get good looking people on there and give them zero help when it comes to figuring out what they want and need of a partner. It’s just another reality tv show with drama 💀
@glitteryytitts I think everyone has that abusive phase with weed that leads them to who they really are lol a character development cheat code, if u will