A regulated nervous system still gets angry.
A regulated nervous system still feels fear.
A regulated nervous system still feels rage.
A regulated nervous system still gets sad.
A regulated nervous is a biological state of safety.
A regulated nervous system is NOT a flatline of endless “calm”. It is the capacity to experience the full, vibrant, & sometimes messy spectrum of human emotions without getting permanently stuck in them.
it’s very weird to me when people will go from really liking and being “obsessed” with someone to talking about them horribly in like .2 seconds over the silliest stuff.
if we’re friends + you need a spot to stay please stay at my spot wtf lol
people want “community” but aren’t doing the things required to build + maintain a community. like how is it an issue if a friend asks to stay over your house?
Falling in love with somebody who stays patient with you while you unlearn survival mode has to be one of the most healing experiences a human can have and not everyone gets to experience it.